The Secret Love Affair

Ok - I know you have all been in one at some point; shoot maybe you are in one now. That love affair that you wanted to keep a secret. Maybe it was an ex that you were getting back with, maybe it was the forbidden guy (the one your girlfriends hated), or maybe it's someone you work with. Whoever it is, it's a big fat secret!!!

What is it about the secret that makes the relationship so much more fun? I don't know but I do know one girl who had a lot of fun until the end. Secret Slassy went through this very same thing not long ago. She had met a guy that was kinda off limits - I mean he was single, but she knew she couldn't have a true relationship with him. Instead she decided to make him her flirting buddy. There was just one little problem - CHEMISTRY. The chemistry between those two was undeniable. As hard as she tried to keep it fun and casual, Secret Slassy couldn't do it. She was into him and knew she was in trouble.

It started one evening when a group of friends went out, slowly the friends left the scene and they were the only two left. (Everyone left because Secret Slassy and her man were so engrossed in each other that no one else had a chance to get one word in). The two were just sitting there being friends and enjoying themselves, but eventually they had to leave. As any respectable man would do, he walked her to her car and leaned in for a goodnight hug, but of course that mean little thing called CHEMISTRY got in the way and the next thing you knew, they were making out. Secret Slassy pulled away, jumped in her car and hurried home. He sent a message to make sure she was safe and that should have been the end.

Well I'm sure you can figure out what happened next. Every time they were together Secret Slassy and her mad just couldn't stay away from one another. Slowly they began to meet at various locations where they knew no one else would be. When that became too risky they decided that they should only meet at each other’s homes when no one else was around. They had nicknames for one another so no-one could tell who it was if a call came through or if a message was sent. They were living in a secret world and Secret Slassy was happy and having fun. There was just one thing missing - sharing her happiness with those she loved.

The fun continued for a little while, but the relationship had no room for growth. In the end Secret Slassy couldn't keep it up. She wanted to tell others and be together but for some reason they couldn't. She wanted to make the relationship more than it was and in the end she ended up getting hurt - even to this day, there is a sore spot in her heart.

Maybe you've found a way to make it work a secret relationship work and last, if so please share. But for all others, please be careful of what you may be getting yourself into. Just remember – when it stops being fun watch out!