Men who just Disappear - WHY?

Have you ever met someone who one moment was all about you and the next gone?

Well you are not alone, it seems as though this happens quite often to all types of women. The question is WHY? Why is it that guys will leave without any warning or excuse - they are just gone?

This has happened to me many times throughout this past year. I'll go on a few dates with a guy, think things are great and moving forward, then all of sudden he will stop calling or contacting me. He is GONE. Just the other day I was talking to a girl friend of mine who was and confused and upset. She had met this wonderful guy who really seemed to be interested in her. They talked on the phone almost every day and spent 2 to 3 days a week together, just having fun and getting to know one another. This was going on for a good 3 to 4 weeks when all of sudden the phone calls stopped. Text message responses became very short and concise. He would sometimes return calls or sometimes he would "forget" or "be tied up." Eventually she stopped trying and just let him go. Nothing changed between them, there were no signs that he wasn't happy, he was just gone.

This puzzled me because it happens so often to all types of girls. I decided to would ask the source (MEN), why do you just disappear with no warning? After polling all sorts of guys I have a found a common theme and ladies you aren't going to like it, but it's what they say. Are you ready?

HE JUST WASN’T THAT INTO YOU

(Hey, isn't there a book/movie with this title)

According to one source "someone else came along who caught my eye and she seemed a little more fun and challenging." Now don't start hating men, because let's be honest - we ladies do the exact same thing. We may not do it as often, or we may not be as short with our answers as the men folk, but you can't tell me you have never talked to two guys at once and eventually cut ties with one of them, if not both for no apparent reason.

Here's the thing. If you are talking to a guy and he stops putting in the effort, then you should know he may not be that into you. If a man wants to be with you he will make the effort to talk to you and be with you. I know it's hard to let go of someone, especially if you really thought there was something special. But just remember, you deserve the world and there is a wonderful man out there who will give you exactly what you need. Don't settle for someone who is only sometimes there; find someone who is ALWAYS there!!!