Too Many Boys, but one valuable lesson

Well, there seems to be a persistent argument as to whether or not a girl should ask out a guy or wait for him to pursue. So here is my conclusion - do whatever makes you happy. If you get turned down, then oh well - at least you tried and now you don't have to spend your time wondering if he is going to ask you out, just move on to the next guy. And if you wait - good for you, just don't wait around too long. Remember guys will go after something they want. stop making excuses for him (the Slassy Ladies have used them all) just move on. Who knows, maybe once you're gone, he will decide he likes you after all and come find you!

Now back to our story. Last time I shared with you the story of one of my first "group dates," but now we come to the time where us Slassy Ladies were hit with multiple guys asking us out and we weren't sure what to do. Some of these guys were ones we met out on the town, in the grocery store, and lord knows where. But some of the others were men from our past, or friends who had never made a move. So through this story I hope you will learn to just have fun with the game.

 So one of the Slassy Ladies had a birthday! (One thing that you should know is that Birthdays are a big deal here at the Slassy House - I mean big deal) So all of us girls doll up and get ready for the town with a little dinner, with some dancing and great music. Well everything was going the way it should. Birthday girl was happy, all the other Slassy Ladies were meeting guys and we were having the time of our lives! Out of the blue Birthday girl meets a guy, "Blondie" and boy is he cute. The next thing I know, they have hit it off and are having great time. That is until this other young man walks in to the party "re-run." Now "re-run" and “birthday girl” haven't really hung out that much, he is a mutual friend, but "re-run" has a thing for "birthday girl" and refuses to admit to it. But when he walks in to the party and sees "Blondie" with "birthday girl, "re-run" is ready to show "birthday girl" how much he cares. Now of course "birthday girl" is just having a little fun and is not looking for drama – I mean what is she supposed to do - torn between two men and she has no idea if either one truly likes her. From someone who was watching it all happen, I must say it was quite amusing seeing these two fellows begging for her attention. If one would leave her the side, the other was quick to swoop in. But this got old, fast, and since drinks were involved we were just waiting for things between the boys to get heated. Luckily her Slassy Ladies were there to jump in and take her home. There could have been a little drama, possibly tears, and what girl needs that on her birthday. So we learned a valuable lesson. If you are seeing multiple people - you better make sure only one knows your plans for the evening. Otherwise, they may all end up in the same place! If they do, you better have a back-up plan!

But no matter what - remember - Girls just want to have fun!



So go out, have some fun with your girls, meet all sorts of guys, then share some of your stories with me!!!